It seems very common with MLC that their memories are terrible, maybe part of the fog or the depression. That lack of attention to detail isn't that surprising, and you know that is a part of the fog since that is not typically how she is.
I must agree with Trusting, I'm observing the same thing about my WH. He even forgot about D's Name Day (Catholic Saint Day). We always celebrate it and Daughter would receive a gift (like a mini B-day). He just forgot...and when I told him he felt really bad and couldn't understand how could he forget.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
