Not sure what to do

[dgtal]

"...Her therapist told her that the principal reason that older women, who have no medical reason, don't have sex with their husbands, is that they are angry at their husband..."

I agree.

I discarded physiological reasons once I convinced her to see a Medical Dr. (friend of mine) who put her in a hormones replacement treatment for 6 months. Not difference, nothing changed. She still has LSD. She is 50 and she started to behave different when she turned 42. I'm trying to find a link between her LSD and everything around our lives, including her EA.

Before I drive myself crazy trying to find reasons I decided the other way around. Changing myself. I had to stick to something: Do you want to have a lot of sex? YES, ok, then get a divorce and take a girl or two or three, or even fill up your apartment with a bunch of girls and have "a lot" of sex, every night, every day until your d!*k hurts. Are you going to be happy after all this? NOPE!!! In the other side of the scale: put yourself at home with your lovely wife and your beautiful family with very limited sex. It sounds better. I chose this one. As a matter of fact, I guess things can be turned around only if she is happy with you and you meet her emotional needs.

I feel better concentrating all my energies experimenting and trying different approaches to make her feel more sexual than expending (wasting) time in the internet, going to places like bars, coursing with anything that moves around with nice legs, nice tits, great bodies.

I this moment I'm trying romantic moments (she and me alone), candles, flowers, deserted beaches with white sand, vacation time in a cruise ship. All of the above, nothing seems to work as a magical switch. But instead I'm giving myself time (2 years at the best)to see results. I'm writing in my calendar the progress and it is worthy.