Just want my H back

[trytryagain]

welcome back, hhh! i was just looking through the threads for you today, wondering how you've been. i'm so glad you're happy out on the left coast and settling in and moving on!!

i agree with pearl...just tell him. be upfront and let him know how long you've been separated and that your relationship with your H has been over for a very very long time. i would apologize for not telling him sooner, but don't be overly apologetic about it, either. not everyone wants to let all their skeletons out of the closet when they are first getting to know someone...i don't think this will change the way he feels about you - and if it does, to heck with him, anyway!! being divorced (or in the process of a D) is no longer a valid excuse for someone not to want to date you. half of everyone on the market is divorced!!

big hugs to you and keep doing what you're doing!