In retrou, one of the keys is that each day you're asked to spend 20 minutes on a written activity you share. It has really helped me understand my W better, which makes us connect better in speech (and bed!)
Again, we aren't out of the woods - we began pretty rough. You wouldn't be either. But Future's point is right on - spending time is important. You might not want to overdue it yet.
It's clear from your success - bringing her back and wanting to work with you, that you can and will have a happy M. Keep that in mind...
