Jasmine,

I meant to post the other day and got involved with kids things.

I agree with Snodderly....You have jumped from one man to another, yet have not stood on your own. If you return to the rental house, I just fear that you will return to unaddressed issues....and then run again.

Maybe a short term rental (3-6 months maybe) and a clear list to your husband.

1-I want to come home
2-To do that we need to address our prior marital issues including the OM
3-Revisit MC
4-Start "dating" again
5-Then move back in

You are in a good place...Hopefully we can assist you in getting farther.


"Be the changes you want to see in the world"