If you end off going to RV, you'll hear some stories of people who've been through different and similar things (PAs, "regular" separations, etc.). They'll give you a feel for how to approach your W over time to get all the info you need.
Maybe not all that you want right away, but I'd guess that as Puppy said, it comes up for him from time to time in a context, but not as a jab or reminder. Forgiveness is powerful~
