You are probably right, but if I wait that long for sex I will end up in an affair. Even though I've suppressed my libido, when I get to a boiling point my memory floods with anger and resentment and if I went that long I would easily find someone to play with.
I gave her an ultimatum, not just because of the lack of sex, but because I was the only one trying to make it better so we could enjoy sex AS A MARRIED COUPLE. I was done trying and resigned to 8 or so years of a near sexless marriage and then get out.
She needs to try now, as she admitted not trying then. I'm done trying. She told me to come to her anytime and ask for it. I came to her this morning and got rejected yet again.
