Thanks for the prop's 4luv! I personally would not tell him I was moving back in b/c to me- it's unnecessary. It her house! I think it would be less drama to move in when you know he is not going to be home.
The number one mistake DBer's make, IMO, is responding with fear of upsetting the WAS, or trying to supplicate. Fear is enemy number 1!. Do not let it rule your decisions!!
Appeasement does not work- look at WW II. OK, I am getting a tad dramatic here.
Off topic: 4luv- I was trying to figure out the whole alt thing last night. Found flowmom and saw your pic- what a pretty gal!! Trying to get my own alt- not sure if I figured out how to get a nickname yet. I think I will figure it out hopefully. DeeBee - I guess. Best
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)