I agree with both of you (-: I am going to move back in the weekend of the 9th. I know that gives him another week at the house. But I'm really not doing it for him, I'm doing it for me. It will give me another week to heal without the stress of kids and house. I'm doing a lot better, and I think I'm ready. However, it has been nice having these last 2 weeks to myself. And I wouldn't mind another week.
I've been dying to say this to him, and I'm sure I will have the chance sometime in the near future.
Me: You have chosen to not love me or be married to me, be a part-time dad, and not care about our future or fininances. These are all your choices, not mine. I'm going to make mine and my kids life as stable/normal as possible while you continue with your bad choices.
The above is more journaling then anything, but I would love to say this to him when I get the chance (-:
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10