thank you... i do have to stop feeling sorry for myself and the baby... last night i went to bed and told myself that i am not going to worry about him, or let anything he says hurt me. i am trying so hard
I do think that my H likes the life free from responsibility. He always says he knows im strong enough to live this through... not fair at all.
sometimes i gain the stregnth to see clearly that H's issues have absolutely nothing to do with me. yes, we did not have a perfect marriage, but a pretty darn great one, as he used to say... but not bad enough to leave, we didnt even fight before he left, yes we argued like normal couples over stupid things, but not where we said we wanted out of the marriage. . he said last week, he thought we were indestructable and yet he destroyed all we had.
thank you for writing... i will read up on your thread to find out more about you...
did your H say why he left? this time? have you tried marriage counseling?
