i very much like that idea, OTM, that our past mistakes and failures could help us bring those deep issues to the surface that can make our M stronger if we give it a chance.

right now i think he is of the mind that we've hurt each other too much to get over our past and create a future together. i do not have a problem with at least taking the chance. i know i can't make him see that we deserve a chance if that's not where he is in his head.

Me30 H29
M2.5 T5
H moved out 1/23/2010
H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010
...feeling hopeless