In addition, you can expand what pearl has stated to include; "there are some additional steps that YOU (meaning H) must take before I can conclude that we are ready for MC. I (meaning lola)must have confidence that I'M ready to have you back in the house. MC will be a start. Right now, I do not feel confident that it's the right decision. When you have some IC started and continuing and we have MC started and continuing; then I can discuss the additional steps that will be needed to continue building my confidence in our M and my trust in you."
