Absolutely.. In the meantime..how do I handle when he is lying to me? I cannot just sit there and take it. I don't want to be accusatory..but I do not want to be disrespected. It is such a joke. Do I tell him to get his shirt together? Do I tell him to get some help with his addiction? I want to tell him that he is pathetic but I know that isn't the right approach. I just cannot take another phone conversation like that. That was the old me that would listen to it. I will not be lied to or disprespected. Just don't know how to get that message across.