Trying to put together the intervention. I'm thinking of having a talking stick and everyone gets to take turns to talk, brief, to the point, strong, and not guilt-ing at all.
What is the outline I should use? 1. I know about the A 2. You've done this before 3. You thought I and then the last one was your soul mate, and now this one also 4. You're destroying the family and me - she's destroying her H 5. You should be protecting us from her 6. It's chemicals that are making you attached to her and think she's "the one" - you barely know her 7. We have a shared history and I'm asking you to cut it off completely and give us a real chance and not run away from our problems. It will take some time to get the chemicals to subside. (should I mention that if they were really meant to be together, he's waited 25 years since high school to find her, he can wait another little while?)
