FM, that chapter sounded was what I needed to read more so I have to go back to it since I still sometimes question 'what if that one time I didn't say xyz or didn't do xyz etc'.
However, yesterday I ordered anther book titled 'How to heal a broken heart in 30 days' - yes the title is gimicky but it had really good reviews on amazon and I looked at the sample pages which looked promising. I'm not naiive enough to know that I'll be a happy go lucky guy in 30 days but I like how it walks you through your various emotions day by day etc. Almost like a good pal who's been through it and understands what you're going through.
I'm not much of a reader, I lose interest in books after the first chapter or two unless it's a really good book. Otherwise I'd much rather buy the audio version of a book and listen to it while my looooong commute.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again