The dates were just dinner or drinks. One chick I went out with was very cool and we hit it off but nothing happened, because I made a decision to not go that route.
And I hear you, and don;t worry about being harsh, I can take it.
I do refuse to share her, and just be one of the guys shes dating. I would stop dating completely to try with her, and she knows that. But I made it clear to her that I will not just sit around and wait for her to be bored with other guys.
I really am moving forward with my life as though she is gone... I honestly don't know what else to do.
I would LOVE to be able to clear the air with her, but she literally will not talk to me. She has said flat out that she likes chit chatting with me, but whenever I bring up anything serious all she hears is "blah blah blah whine whine whine".
That was her exact quote to me. And I made absolutely sure that every serious topic I brought up I did with calmness and understanding. I was ready to hear whatever she had to say, and she just wont say anything.
I know the chances of her actually seeing someone else are very high.
All I know is every time I have actually tried to talk to her about anything, she gets REALLY mad and says REALLY mean things, and I just can't do it anymore.
I know her love language now, and I nailed it on the dates I had with her, I know I did.
So we'll see.
For now, I am totally backing off and living my life. She knows how I feel and what I want, and she has my #.
I don't really know what else to do at this point.
