H4L, affection truly is a reason for optimism, and I believe that a physical connection can cut through so much of the mental crap that sticks to relationships. I can buy the up-and-down wall theory.
I do think it's a good idea to create some space though.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
