help some advice plse..have i finished it for good

[saffie]

I am fine thanks Jac. Off out to see to my horses again in a little bit.....and expecting the children home from school. Tomorrow is the last day of freedom, (for me), before their Easter school break. I have one sitting AS levels this May/June and another doing some of his GCSE's so I shall be guiding the family ship with an iron rod this holidays re school work - I can already feel the rebellion rising!!!!!

Tonight is also cinema night for me and H. We try to go most Tuesdays to get some time to ourselves. One thing we have learned from all this is to keep our connection going - we spent too many years running round after children and ignoring the M and each other!!!!

A family is a big draw and however good your H's fantasy might be to live for a while, eventually I am sure it will tarnish and feel not right. I really would try to get some sort of message through to him that working on your M is possible and that you are open to discussing things with him without recriminations being thrown at him.