C Sorry for your pain It is all so very difficulay and there is no easy answers but the other have sugested is helpful to read to focus on you try to create a new life find a hobby make some new friends as far as H and OW I know how painful it is to watch my xh did Marry ow but time does heal one never knows what the odds are for these Affairs supposedly they are not very good so chances are it wont last but either way we LBS have to find ways to move forward Due to the circumstances I would also try to limit contact keep conversations brief cordial to the point and pray to let him go I also know it is so hard to let them go but again time spend this time healing and working on you your happiness ect and all else will come as planed It is out of our hands peace
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