You can also ABSOLUTELY expect her to use the line "Well, I was GOING to reconsider getting back with you, but NOW YOU'VE BLOWN IT!" -- or something very similar. Happens EVERY time.
As SmileysPerson used to say around here, you're heading into your "just smile and wave" stage.
My wife, while she was having her affair, would tell me how PISSED she was that I exposed. I mean, blind rage kind of anger. I would just calmly say "I hear you -- I'd be pissed too. I get it. I felt he/she/they had a right to know the truth." or, "I decided that I'm not going to lie to cover up your affair," or "Everything I've done, I've done to fight for our marriage and our family. I don't expect you to agree, or be happy with me right now -- I'm fine with that."
