BWP, what state are you in? Domestic abuse is pretty hard to prove. I'm in one of the three or four WORST states for "men's rights" issues, and yet my attorney told me that altho he was sure they'd TRY to get me out of my house (he was right), it was a longshot for them at best (it was).
I would say time to get a new atty, one that will fight for you more confidently.