[quote=Piano It worried me that the friend who he has been staying with since the bomb is now taking a "these things just happen" stance - he tried to get my WH to reconcile with me, but has now given up, I reckon. Fair enough. What do you know about the people surrounding your husband right now?[/quote]
You need to detach from him and the sitch. You cannot control this and you will drive yourself crazy. You need to get ready for the little one.
FOCUS FOCUS FOCUS on YOU YOU YOU.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am