Then I jokingly I told her she should just come home tonite and I could make her feel real good.
Careful......you were pursuing (in a joking way, of course). Don't push your luck. Most WAW's are turned off by anything (joke or otherwise) that hints at having sex with her.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
