How to approach W about OM

[MrBond]

OIN,

I haven't been able to bust my D...yet. I've been at this for 2 years and the drama so far could be turned into a made for tv movie (the OM actually came to my workplace to have me fired).

What I can say is that I've seen it all from the mood swings, to the "forgetful" memories, to the evil OM, to the IL who encourage my W. It's all been an uphill battle.

I can honestly say that things are wayyyy better than they were a year ago. Where she used to not speak at all to me, we're actually having nice conversations. Where she didn't want to "accidentally" bump into me, I can now hold he without her flinching.

In my W's case, she's prone to depression and it was compounded by three major triggers that set off her MLC.

I definitely don't think I'm done, but it's taken alot of understanding and patience. It all comes down to you and if you want to save your M or not.

You'll find strengths you never believed you had.