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I miss him terribly but not sure what space he is in or if we could make things work but would be good to have choice.


Is there anyone you trust , and that he would listen to, that could tell him this?

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I believe he is disgusted with himself and riddled with guilt.


From what I have read, I see that this can often stop the WAS coming home. I imagine his fear of rejection after what he has done is extremely high. The plus side though is that if he s feeling these things then he does have some moral compass left.


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength