Passenger I agree with Allen A,you want to emphasis how its clear he isnt thinking straight.When they get into the fog, it is very difficult to seperate fantasy from reality...your H should know that the game is always the same..just the players change. This is why I think he maybe in MLC because he is not able to rationalise his thoughts and think through the implications of his behaviours.He is also drinking(My H did this too very untypical) probably to avoid accepting what he already knows. Pick your time very carefully...
I hope if his friends are good friends they will see the trend in his behaviour and tell him to snap out of it..no matter what you cant live life like this.He definitely has some deep rooted issues Passenger. Any idea what might be at the centre of it? There is something that drives people to do this usually.
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ME 44 H 45 D 14 D 20 M 22 YEARS TOGETHER 28YEARS Bomb Drop 14th July 09 Seperated-living with OW 10mths(14/07/09) MLC 3years
Silence wasn't golden in this marriage; it was deadly," Dr. Robin L. Smith