Not sure what to do

[dgtal]

I'm going thru the same thing. I really dont know what to tell you since we all have to learn by ourselve the concept of how much is too low or how high is too high. She doesn't want more than once every month, I want to do it every day.

My negative reaction (protesting, internet porn, internet chating, pursuing sex outside home) almost ruined our marriage. I learn to be patient and cool off a bit. Taking care of all my W and D needs. Now everybody is happy at home. Since the day I changed (19 months) the average love making increased from 1 to 3 times at month. Still not what I want. But, for sure I want to stay with my family because I love them. I love my wife like no body else in this world.

There is a statement in the Sex Starved Marriage book: the more you want the less interest she will have. The less interest in sex you notice she has, the more you want. The more they reject us the more sexual we feel. Its like the physic's action reaction law. So what, I'M TRYING TO BEAT THE HUMAN LAW TO LIVE LIKE HUMAN.