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[quote=If she...Screw it. She hasn't and apparently will not. And only SHE can make that decision. If she only knew how much we could do for each other in a new, healthy M and how much we could help the kids by doing that. As much as I want to SHOW her that, I can't. She has to do that. But she won't. [/quote]

Hi GIMA,

I thought I would take the opportunity to check out your sitch.

I was really struck by this paragraph. I feel/think exactly the same thing as you did then, if only..... You now seem to be really strong and I am going to use your strength to try and get me through this nightmare.

I agree with you on the 'staying friends' front. How can someone who did this expect the LBS to carry on as if nothing has happened? I believe the WAS in their own minds, invent a scenario where they think their LBS has accepted the situation and is moving on with their life. This may be true to some point, but it is the selfish act of someone who could not give a damn.

I am going to get up to speed on your situatiion and keep looking in.

You're doing great.