Hi G, need some inspiration today. I feel that maybe I may have scre**ed up. When H first left he offered me a financial settlement. At the time I didnt even consider it as I was too emotional and didnt actually think it would end in a D. Now 9 mnths done the line that proposal is exactly what I need and what would be financial viable, however as he is now still unemployed/self employed it doesnt look like it may be possible or that he will be happy to offer that anymore.
My L is confident that we can get that, but I feel perhaps as things have now turned ugly he may pull out all the stops to ensure I get less.
I dont want to 'take him the the cleaners', just need my sons and I to maintain our lives.
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived