Tonight W finally admitted to the PA. It was unprovoked and out of the blue. Pretty courageous. Although it is funny that she doesn't think it is wrong. I handled it calmly but who knows if what was said does more damage or not.
She still wants to be married and is very confused. I told her that I will wait as long as I can for her to come to a place of clarity to make her decision but that I wouldn't waif around forever. I also told her that I didn't think that as long as there was someone else involved that MC would work. When she is ready she can come to me.
This is just a vent but it is funny that she can say that she loves me unconditionally and then not see that her love is absolutely conditional. Otherwise she wouldn't go outside our marriage when things get tough. I didn't tell her that but I am thinking it.
Good things my expectations were low. I don't feel too bad. It's something I've suspected for quite some time so it didn't hit me like the ton of bricks. Just several hundred pounds of them. It's not possible to be completely prepared for that talk.
Keep doing what works right?
Me: 43 W: 40 S10,S7 M12, T13+
My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1952314&page=1
