Thanks dday I am trying to figure out the right balance of availability with my ex. How much giving I should do. I was not a great husband, but she divorced a better father and husband. So, she is kinda pushing away someone healthy in her life. She does not have much of that in her life.
M/30s WAW/30s 4 children S 1 yr LS 8 months OM / just a friend 1 1/2 YR D 1 month