She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

[steady]

bart, you are getting sucked into hope. Get out. It's hard and I know it's hard. But going in with hope will lead to expectations. Expectations will lead to you gauging every single word that is said to see if they meet your expectations.

Those words or sentences that don't reflect your expectation will cause an emotional reaction in you - even if you don't 'show' it, it will come out and she will pick up on it.

You will become deflated, disappointed, fearful, projecting negative, you'll become needy and clingy....

Let go. Let go of the event of your phone call. It meant nothing. Just a neutral event.

Push that into your brain. If you have no expectations, you will not react to anything that happens. If you don't react to anything that happens you will be in a position to accept fully whatever direction it moves in.

When you can embrace fully any course it takes, you will be detached from the outcome.

Want what you want, but do not be attached to a certain outcome.