She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

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She came up with an excuse and managed to call me again. When I get home would it be wrong of me to ACCIDENTLY leave my DR book laying around or would that let her know my tactics?

I just think the first few chapters would be a great read for her.

ABSOLUTELY NOT. Leave nothing 'laying' around the house. She'll know you left it and she'll resent you for it. If she asks you about what you're reading that would be a different story.

Just remember. If she reads DR she will look at it as you setting up a strategy to manipulate her into coming back. That's all she'll see in it so I would never show it to a spouse.

I catch myself still trying to do small things to control and manipulate in the fashion you just asked. It's control and it's an illusion. I find most of my control attempts end up backfiring on me.