Thanks, FM.

No, I haven't worked on detachment in IC. What the heck have I been working on??!

going thru grief, acknowledging feelings.. I have an C meeting tomorrow, I will ask her about detachment.

Yes, you are right--even if new GF is Nobel-peace-prize winner, , Mother Teresa and Bill Gates all rolled into one, it doesn't make me any different or less than I always was. But apparently makes me less desireable as a life partner...


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process