Nothing the OW can do or be in other people's eyes dimishes you in any way. You know that. I know that every reminder hurts so much, and it picks the scab off yet again. Detachment is the only thing that will make this easier for you. Are you working specifically on the goal of detachment in IC?
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
