Also, when he was here the other day and I ask my h "if I told him to march into the house and stay here, would he?", and he said "probably". My db coach said that I shouldn't tell him what to do. He needs to make that decision on his own and he needs to win me and know that he could lose me. Makes sense to me. I'm not some mail order bride....I'm nicole. Totally awesome and worth winning.
Ahhh, nicole8, I LOVE your spirit!! I am so very pleased that you had a good coaching session, that the insight your coach provided lined up with your own instincts and helped cut through the muddle of emotions, and that you are seeing yourself in such a positive light. Way to go!!
