We both agree that women want what they can't have. If she's not willing to come back and ask for that, fight for it, then is she really the person you want to be with?

I never thought BF would come back. Even before I was through I gave us a 5% chance. The week before he contacted me I was asked by three different people what I would do if he wanted back and I told all of them it just wasn't going to happen so I wasn't going to worry about it.

Bottom line is what you're doing is for you. Packing up her stuff is facing reality and not being stuck in wishful thinking. You are showing her love by giving her what she wants. After that, it's up to her. If she doesn't want to face her issues and work on the M then that's her choice. Her choices have consequences and she has to deal with them.

If you love somebody, set them free.
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