yes, talking with the DB coach is like verbal yoga to re-center myself. I told my friend pretty much what you said. That I feel like what I am doing is right and being reminded is very helpful. I am definately in a better mood today.

I took the afternoon off work and hung out with a friend....so fun.

I'm currently working on a letter to give my h if he does decide to come home. I should have been working on this a long time ago....I was kind of hoping if I didn't do it I would need it. Sort of a mind trick I was playing on myself. I just need to get it done though.


M 35, husband 35
M 10
Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count
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