Well I can tell you, Pearl, I'm not waiting around years. Not happening. Just like Meatloaf said, I'd do anything for love, but I won't do that.
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Some people don't want to expose because their WAS will feel too much damage will be done and not want to come back.
My gut is telling me there is a lot of ^this^ going on. Not so much from the A exposure, but just in the W's mind. If she felt so strongly to do whatever she did (even if she felt it was an instant mistake), she wouldn't come crying to me to take her back. She would take it out on herself and think I was better of with someone else. That's what has me concerned about the packing up of her stuff. She would see that as an ending point.
I'm not sure if it was you or Mindfull who said women want what they can't have. But you are assuming the woman will fight for what she wants. And My W has such a defeatist attitude, I'm not sure she would fight for anything.