June, if I ever had a chance to do MC again, I would want to try Retrouvaille or a Gottman family therapist -- more focused on strategies rather than digging into underlying issues. Our MC did more damage than good. I hope that you'll get the ease that you want in your M.
Excellent point. One little add on to this, there are therapists who practice "solutions-oriented brief therapy" (the type of therapy which MWD describes in DB) who look for solutions rather than spending tons of time on past history issues. This can be an extremely effective type of therapy.
