Mr Bond if you don't mind me asking...we're you able to reconcile your sitch?

I am not sure if you have been reading along but giving my situation do you have any tips or thread recommendations that I can benefit from?

M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10