How to approach W about OM

[MrBond]

There's always hope. Just be wary of the mood swings. That was the hardest part of me to deal with. It was like living with Dr. Jekyl. I never knew what would set her off. The walking on eggshells was tough until I realized that I didn't have to walk on them any longer.

Her care less attitude is exactly that. She could care less. She doesn't want to deal with drama, yet doesn't want to admit that she's the one causing it. Carry on with YOUR life. How you do that is going to depend on your sitch. Finding that neutral area where you don't get affect by her and yet she doesn't get upset with you is where you need to get to first.