Allen, that's the problem. He's having fun with her because - well, there's the sex. He won't even let me touch him at all (I mean if I accidentally brush him at night, he pulls away. But because she's taking him out to bars, they're going drinking, spending time with friends, etc. I can't do that because he's totally withdrawn from me.
He's not talking to me at all right now, other than brusque hellos and nothing friendly. Last time, I was able to get him to come around by being friendly, kind, fun, spontaneous, etc. He loves that stuff. I made tons of mistakes, but not enough to matter long term.
