flowmom, you must have been rolling your eyes just when I took a break from rolling mine. I've been doing a lot of that lately.
Yes, I'm getting many mixed signals. His words make it seem like he's so certain he wants to D, but his actions don't match. This may seem trivial, but in 3 months, he has never had his mail forwarded. He does a weekly mail-gathering that involves a visit with me. It may mean nothing, but he could have done this long ago to save himself a weekly interaction with me.
I have patience and then some. It pleases me that he's open to reading a book. I'll just have to really ponder which one. Not DB or DR, of course. Also, he's the artsy type with reservations about organized religion, so the book can't be too faith-based. Time to do some research, I guess.
As for the sexual harassment thing, I met with my boss again today to go over the procedure. I have a meeting with one of the Big Bosses tomorrow. This Big Boss has the authority to modify my crisis training assignments so that I don't have to work with this man again. She's also a longtime friend and colleague of my late mother's, so I know she'll be professional but also act in my best interest. Thanks for checking in on that.
