Pup, not sure I get what you're saying about controlling. That the WAS is just making it up? Like another excuse for his/her behaviour?

I've been told I was the one that made decisions and was controlling, and that by walking AWAY, the WS is taking BACK the control.

Thoughts?

Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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