Yeah, I've thought of that Puppy, but the problem is that these people were there to support our R in the beginning, which as I said I now suspect started as an A and DH wasn't truthful with me. (told me it was over with XW)
Anyway, he introduced me to them and they accepted me, because he had told them that I was his soul mate and his XW was a total witch. Fast forward, sound familiar? Yikes, it makes me sick. He's introduced her to them as his soul mate, and I'm just sick thinking that perhaps it's too late, maybe he's already detached too much... but I'm staying positive. Self-fulfilling prophecy... in any case, it's a gamble, but one I'm willing to take as if I can get them on my side, even just for a little while, I may buy enough time to try to reach him by being fun, etc. That worked last time for us. He's in the house right now and has been for 1/2 hour and never even came to see me in the bedroom to see why I'm home from work early. He never once asked me where I was the entire weekend. I need a new game plan as far as DBing goes, but still going to expose. There's nothing else I can do, if I don't go for it, I will lose for sure.
