I also understand you can try the bluff- figure out as much as you can...new clothes, new parfume, new undies (sexy), grooming habbits, change in hours, long errands,- they also say women have a glow about them in an A of some type- heck you prob notice a huge change in her confidence, distance, etc...
Then you can just say, I know what's happening here, you're not fooling anyone.
I'd consult Pup and Allen to see if that's worth a try...
I personally think a bluff would work. Consider:
1. She doesn't know how long that recorder had been there, and what you may have gleaned from it already.
2. She doesn't know what other intel you might have.
In fact, if she should SAY anything to you about the recorder, I would just smile at her confidently, and say "That's OK, I have what I needed already."
Bluffs are almost always effective. The cheating spouse doesn't know what you know, and what you don't know.
