In my years on this forum, and nearly 15,000 posts between Puppy Dog Tails and Chocolateeyes, I've learned a thing or two about affairs.
It has been my experience that "You're controlling!" is a complaint of approximately 95% of cheating spouses, and near 100% of cheating WIVES.
Usually, I'll probe and ask the betrayed husband, "Was this a marital complaint of hers before her affair? Do YOU think it is legitimate -- WERE you controlling?" And in nearly every instance, they tell me "No, she's only brought this up since she's started her affair."
