Stay: Love, she's done more for me than anyone else, we think alike, we act alike, she's the strongest person I know.

Leave: she doesn't want me, we've hurt each other so much, I'm not sure I know who she is anymore, I've begun a career path that would end if I left the state to be with her, I have a lot of personal issues that need to be addressed before I can consider a relationship w/ anyone

~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)