I agree w/ the above. I also agree w/ Eric- I know that your saying "i know we'll end up together" is confident, but remember, she doesn't want that right now- you're only reminding her of that.
It's OK to say that stuff while happily looking into the mirror...but WAS is a diff story...you say things like that and she'll feel the cage getting smaller.
I kinda feel the same way in my sitch- I'm embarrassed to say- I just prayed to W's late father and brother- to bring W back to the M, to let her "want" it again...
The LBS in me fights me and says, "what if W will be happier w/ OM, what if this is fate and she escaped a bad M to find true happiness?"
UGH- can you tell that I hate myself a little...or that I LOVE self fulfilling prophecies?
Anyway- that's my advice as to what doesn't work- like Eric said- listen to her...we always here dont believe anything they say, but similarly, when she says what irritates her- LISTEN to THAT.
Confidence is good- but you need to confidently display a sense of loss to WAW- not self-assured I have you forever...that will push her further away- she is flighty, negative, and selfishly seeking freedom.
